What Kids Think About Bath Time

Wonder why your child doesn't like to take a bath? Understanding what your child is thinking may help to make bath time an easier time.

Remember that baths are not as important to kids as they are to parents.

Getting clean is not as important to kids as it is to you. Your child might be thinking, “Why do you care so much about my taking a bath? I can do it tomorrow.”

Recognize that your child might like to play in the bath, but not get clean.

Kids usually love playing in the bath, on their terms and time schedule. Your child might be thinking, “Why can't I just keep playing? Do I really need to wash my hair and body? Why?”

Remember what baths felt like when you were a kid.

Sometimes, kids resist baths because they don't like the feeling of being fussed over. Some are particularly sensitive around their face and eyes, to water temperature, or rough wash cloths. Your child might be thinking, “I don't want to wash my hair because it hurts my eyes or the water is too hot.” Was it the same for you? Do you remember what it felt like to get soap in your eyes?

Realize that some kids are afraid of putting their heads under water.

Some kids have huge fears about getting their heads wet, and this can be frustrating for tired parents. Your child might actually be thinking, “If my head gets wet, I won't be able to breathe.” “Even one childhood experience of water going down the windpipe and being momentarily unable to breathe can leave a lasting impact,” reports Dr. Lawrence Cohen, Kandoo's Parenting Expert. “While bath time fears can hang on for a while, they can also resolve,” reassures Dr. Cohen.

Refusing to take a bath might mean that your child wants more of your help.

Sometimes kids who have learned to wash on their own become resistant, because they still want your company, even if they don't need your help. Your child might be thinking, “I miss the way we used to play in the bath, so I won't get in.”